Friday, 9 September 2016

1 day and counting

It's tomorrow - unbelievable but true. It seems unreal that a year has passed since my 50th birthday when, at my party, I announced I was doing this Challenge.

Whether you've followed my blog from the beginning, picked it up half way or have only found it last week, thank you. My ramblings are my way of recording the route plans and the events of each actual walk, I hope you've enjoyed them.

You can re-trace my Challenge using the links page right but here are the main events:









I have been overwhelmed with the support everyone has given to me, especially my fundraising page. I had no idea the total would reach over £1000 when I set up the Virgin Money page - again, thank you. 

I can remember all the excitement as I wrote my 'Things are moving along' post in August 2015; now it's exciting as tomorrow will be the final three miles and I will have completed the route of the London Marathon.

Life is not always easy for any of us, everyone has things they have to overcome and you cannot measure one person's achievement against another's. 

There are amazing athletes winning medals, people walking incredible distances, climbing huge mountains, crossing high seas - all so inspiring and inspirational. 

However there are just as many people achieving small things which to them are the mountains, the high seas, the long distances - achievement is personal and whatever we've achieved we should all be proud.



But that doesn't mean we shouldn't push ourselves to the highest achievement  - we all have control of what we do ...... so do it !! 


I'm going to have to push really hard tomorrow - yesterday I felt my legs a little unstable but put it down to gm and swim work - unfortunately today I know why, and they still feel wobbly - there's a cold coming !! 

My eyes are stingy, sore throat, my glands are coming up, wobbly legs - oh the joy - why now? Colds and MS don't mix very well but it will just have to hold off as nothing will stop me completing my Challenge tomorrow.

None of my 'route marches' would have been possible without my amazing Hubby Nick - he sees how life really is and is an amazing support, without him I wouldn't manage at home never mind walking the London Marathon. 

Hubby and me on the train
He's been amazing - even in the rain !!
That's it then - time to pack  my case for our weekend in London with our grown up children. It will be quite a weekend with birthday celebrations, a 3 mile stroll and singing in the Park - here we go !!

Thursday, 8 September 2016

2 days and counting

Nearly there - I've said that a few times over the weeks!

Two things that have kept me going are the thought of our lunch stops (a much needed sit down too) and my celebration drink at the end of each stage. The right proirities !!

It's been fun finding cafes, pubs and restaurants along the way - some have been so full of history.


Route 1's breakfast was at The Scullery Cafe  as we'd had a far walk to the start although this was only half a mile in it was a welcome rest stop.


My other rest on Route 1 was a bench outside Charlton House - it was one of the few benches we've seen, although there's plenty in Canary Wharf.


The Great Harry was our final rest place after finishing Route 1.


It's a Wetherspoon pub just across the road from Woolwich DLR.


Good food, goood price and the perfect location for me both at the end of Route 1 and for a breakfast stop at the start of Route 2.

Route 2's walk was along a busy road, quite dusty with all the traffic.

There were very few places to stop and rest but Costa Coffee appear at just the right moment.


We didn't stop again on Route 2, and there was no pub at the finish mark.

Instead of taking the tube we decided to use the bus - a great way to see more of London.

Our bus journey ended in Holbourn and so we chose Nandos for my celebration wine (and dinner), and lovely it was too.


Route 3 started at Maze Hill with the first half a mile wandering through Greenwich.


Our late morning coffee stop was at The Spanish Galleon, a nautical themed pub with a surprise - a chip shop inside, yes really!



I just loved their wine rack - oh to have a house big enough !!



Route 3 was again long a main road, very few places to stop for a rest however pausing for photos gives my legs a moment or two


Greenland Dock was the end point for Route 3 and thanks to Google maps I'd already located a pub - The Moby Dick


It was quite a popular pub, with views across the dock.


The menu was as expected, good pub grub, and the wine very much appreciated.

Greenland Dock was therefore the start of Route 4 but we didn't revisit The Moby Dick for breakfast, instead we set straight off.


Our friends walked with us for Route 4 making it quite a special trip. This being so I had again browsed Google Maps looking for a lunch stop.


Slightly off track (one street) I discovered The Mayflower - and what a discovery it was.

The pub is the original mooring place of the Pilgrim Father's ship - The Mayflower.



It's tucked away right on the bank of the River Thames.


Walking in is like stepping back into the 16th Century with the original leaded windows, wooden panels and bar.


I'm very jealous of anyone lucky enough to call this their local!


Route 4 turned into a very wet walk, certainly not at stroll over Tower Bridge taking in the magnificent structure and views.

More like a quick (well not so quick for me) dash to the finish spot and across the road to All Bar One.


Something extra special this time for my celebration glass as not only were our friends with us but the end of Route 4 marked the completion of half the Marathon!


Hubby and I really like All Bar One's Yerling Station shiraz, not the cheapest bottle around but I love the sour cherries in this heavy red.


Tower Hill saw the start of Route 5 - a long stroll along The Highway towards Canary Wharf.


Another historic pub for our lunch stop, a very famous pub in Narrow Street - The Grapes.


Charles Dickens, Samuel Pepys are but two of the famous people who have frequented this tiny pub.


It is a the road suggests a very narrow building built directly on the banks of the Thames with an outside stilted balcony.


Sir Ian McKellen is The Grapes proprietor, the pub's history is full of writers and actors, being itself featured in many novels.

Route 5 continued past Canary Wharf to finish at Millwall Dock. We didn't stay for a celebration drink this time as my legs were quite tired, enjoying instead a coffee and snack in the Virgin Train's First Class lounge before our journey home.


Route 6 took us up the centre of the Isle of Dogs to Canary Wharf, no stopping this time for a breakfast or coffee which in hindsight was a bit of a mistake.


We did however have a long lunch at The Big Easy, a great location right up high above the new Crossrail Link.


Weaving our way out of Canary Wharf Route 6 ended right outside Majestic Wines Docklands
- how very appropriate.

It's always a pleasure to browse around a Majestic Wines store, so many great labels, so much information to learn and new wines to discover.

Of course the tasting bar is an added bonus !!

And so to Route 7 - the penultimate walk setting off from Majestic (without a pre walk tasting)

Route 7 was along a very busy road, getting closer to the City certainly added to the level of traffic.



Just before turning south to pick up The Highway and retrace our steps back to Tower Hill we took a very much needed rest at Husk Coffee and Creative Space.

Great coffee and the salted caramel and chocolate cake was just so delicious.

Plenty of sugar to give an energy boost for that last bit back to Tower Hill.


I was as always quite tired at the end of Route 7 but The Crutched Friar provided perfect rest stop, and a very nice chilled glass of white.


Tucked away behind Tower Hill station this quaint looking pub was actually quite modern inside with a bright airy bar and outside space.

All our stops have been very much needed and very much appreciated. We've enjoyed some great coffees, cakes, breakfasts, lunches, beers and of course wine. 

My superstar Hubby has tried a few local ales which, although small, is a small bonus to my needing a sit down. I am very very grateful to him for all his support on my Challenge; emotionally, physically and financially.  

Route 8 in just 2 days time - in fact it starts tomorrow as we are all in London for my birthday weekend. Plenty of chance to sample a few more 'resting places' especially on Saturday when we're all strolling along the final 3 miles. 

It would be great to visit Nicolas on Friday night and we're having a family birthday breakfast at The Liberty Bounds Saturday morning before starting Route 8



Thank you to all the pubs, bars and cafes that we've visited - at the time you will have had no idea why you were so important to me but as you can see from this post you really really have been, thank you. 




Wednesday, 7 September 2016

3 days and counting

Today's the day - a very exciting day - for all our amazing paralympian athletes. The Paralympics 2016 Opening ceremony is tonight (9pm here in the UK).

The British Paralympian Association is my final charity and today is a very very special day, after many years of hard work; atheletes, coaches, medical staff, families, friends - each athlete is actual a team of people.

I'll be closely following one very special person - Rhys Jones. 

Rhys Jones - T37 Paralympian

Our daughter, Philippa, met Rhys through her work with the Young Ambassadors for Sport and her time as a Games Maker at the London Paralympics. She studied at South Wales University, close to Rhys' home town. They worked together for the YA scheme, Sport Wales and RCT; Rhys and Philippa were two of the VIP Commonwealth Baton Bearers when the baton traveled through Aberdare in 2014.

Rhys and Philippa - Commonwealth Baton Bearers
Rhys has worked so hard, achieved so much, his Rio bio reads:

 'Jones started athletics in 2009 and after three years, qualified for a home Paralympic Games in London. Still only 18 at the time, the Welshman finished 8th in the T37 200m final in front of the biggest crowd of his career.
Fast-forward four years and Jones has faced several injury problems in that time including surgery last year. Instead of threatening to derail his career, Jones was selected for the team in Doha where he reached the 100m final.
2014 had been an encouraging year for Jones, winning bronze for his beloved Wales at the Commonwealth Games in Glasgow before winning another bronze medal on home soil at the European Championships in Swansea, a few miles from his home town.'



Saturday is a very exciting day for Rhys too - its race day !! 

Rhys' parents will be there to watch, very exciting - Go Rhys Go !!

Follow Rhys on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram 

Supercharge has been the very successful campaign for the Rio Paralympics 2016 - it's been so exciting to follow all the news, but the British Paralympic Associations work is endless - already looking at Tokyo 2020. 

Their dedication to sport, support, and training is amazing, at all levels, helping our para-athletes achieve their dreams. 




Channel 4 is covering Rio Paralympics 2016 with a catch up each morning and coverage from 1pm in the afternoon through to 1am in the morning. There is so much to watch and so many athletes to cheer for. 

The British Paralympic Association is also hosting Carnival events throughout September across the UK - you can try the various sports, meet Paralympians and celebrate Brazilian style.


Thank you to everyone who has donated - 25% of all donations will go to the British Paralympic Association. You can follow their amazing work on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

If you'd like to donate directly to the British Paralympic Association please use this link


Tuesday, 6 September 2016

4 days and counting

Cancer is a word no-one wants to hear but these days there is so much more support and hope for many. The main problem is that although it's one name it has many many forms and affects so many different areas of our bodies.

Research into cancer and treatments really has improved over the time of my MS diagnosis but not for all forms of cancer - no cancer is worse than any other but funding, awareness and research is still not equal.

One such cancer is pancreatic cancer - something that touched our family 26 years ago which is why Pancreatic Cancer UK is one of my four charities.



Our wedding on 24th June 1989 was amazing, as all weddings should be.

Nothing outlandish, just a great family wedding, very traditional church ceremony followed by a celebration at a large hotel.

One of the long standing memories for me was dancing with my new father-in-law, he was a good dancer.



Nick's Dad, Ron was always making others laugh, cringe sometimes with his jokes and always jesting.

Unfortunately a few months after our wedding Ron fell in and was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

He passed away just 8 months after our special day - he was only 55.

Ron Hearnden
A couple of years ago we had a celebration to mark our 25th Anniversary, meeting again friends and family, some we hadn't seen in over 20 years. It didn't seem right for people to give gifts so we requested donations for Pancreatic Cancer UK - we were overwhelmed with everyone's generosity reaching a total of £540.


This form of cancer has affected so many including Maggie Watts who lost her husband in 2009. 40 years earlier his mother had also died of pancreatic cancer and Maggie was astounded to discover the survival rates had not improved over those years.


Since then she has worked so hard to raise awareness, successfully petitioning Parliament for a debate. Her fundraising and work is endless, inspiring so many to help. Maggie would be the first to say she is not the only one, there are many in the Purple Army working hard.


Pancreatic Cancer UK offers support, advice and information for those affected by this form of cancer, they also work hard to increase awareness and develop research.





Thank you to everyone who had donated - 25% of all donations will go to Pancreatic Cancer UK. You can follow their amazing work on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

If you'd like to donate directly to Pancreatic Cancer UK please use this link

Monday, 5 September 2016

5 days and counting

Diabetes UK is one of the other charities that I am fundraising for - actually that's wrong.

The Challenge is for me - just me, so I can say I've done it - in the same way I achieved my teaching degree!


However I could not be that selfish and miss the 'helping hand' aspect of doing a Challenge ..... but why Diabetes UK?


My late father had diabetes in his later life, nothing when he was younger but as he got older, had more episodes of bad health his diabetes developed until in his final years he needed insulin.

Dad has always been a big part of my life, always helping us, going on holiday with us, just always there.
At home before my Godmother's wedding (1971)
On my wedding day - 24th June 1989
Father's Day - Narbonne Plage 2002 with impromptu hat!!
He was so proud of his grandchildren (2007)
His health did deteriorate from his mid 70s and his last ten years had quite a few inpatient times. Our medical staff work so hard, everyone across the NHS from ambulance staff, receptionist, doctors and nurses. I know Dad was grateful for the care he received.

Diabetes also affects a number of our friends, worryingly it seems a condition that is on the increase. Is that our diet and lifestyle or a reason we've not discovered yet?

Diabetes UK provides support, information and most importantly research - such a vital charity for those in need of advice and guidance.





Thank you to everyone who has donated - 25% of all donations will go to Diabetes UK. You can follow their amazing work on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

If you'd like to donate directly to Diabetes UK please use this link - Donation to Diabetes UK

Sunday, 4 September 2016

6 days and counting

This time next week it will be all done ..... and so will I, done in !

I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in 1999. That summer we (Hubby, Dad and our two children) had enjoyed an amazing end of May holiday in Austria. A beautiful place, lots of walking, including up the small hill next to our campsite. I was a typical 34 year old mum, our children just 8 and 5.
At the top of Austria's highest mountain - the Grossglockner
with Philippa and Michael (1999)
Picnic in the mountains (1999)
The last half term at school suddenly seemed tricky, I realised I needed longer and longer to walk to and from school to meet the children. My legs also began to feel numb and it increased upwards. Our GP and subsequently the hospital specialist were amazing and within a couple of weeks I'd been in hospital, had many tests and the diagnosis given.

And so life went on - it took many many weeks to start walking again but with my families help I could again get to school and back. Some things did not improve 100%, the palm of my right hand remained numb and now 17 years on both my hands feel like I am permanently wearing gloves.

My legs have surface numbness, quite often tremours inside and my walking at times is very slow. The bottom of my feet can have pins and needles when I'm tired, my hands don't always grip things if I'm not actually looking them - not funny in the night when trying to grab the bed covers !!

Heat can be an issue as I feel totally drained and if too hot I lose the vision in my right eye, and without going into any detail there are days when my insides are not so good ;-\

But my life is good - in fact it's pretty amazing - if anything my MS has given me extra strength. I always wanted to teach but things didn't evolve that way when I left school in 1982. As I recovered back in 1999 I decided I would like to restudy and get my teaching degree - and I did, graduating in 2004 the day before my 39th birthday.

Oxford Brookes Univeristy 2004
My facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and blogs are full of our holidays, my stitching, my wine tasting, events I've organised and fundraising I've done. I'm a very positive person and for me there isn't any point or benefit in showing the world the bad days so to the world everything looks good (and it is).

The photos rarely show me standing, it's far easier to smile when sitting down as I don't have to worry about holding on to anything to keep my balance. It's easy to organise events as I am in control and can plan around my need to rest or have quiet days. It's easy to do my cross stitch as it's just holding a needle (so long as I watch to make sure my hand hasn't let go) however I no longer knit as I haven't the movement in my hands.

I am no longer teaching, but am happily looking after our home and my family. My MS was not a reason for leaving but being able to plan my time myself has been a huge help in keeping control of my symptoms. I spend my time writing my three blogs; Aimetu's, Aimetu's Stitching and for the last year this one.

I also run two forums; Needlecraft Haven and Cuvée Reserve. The first being for my crafty friends, a place we share our work including my baking (MS Cake Bake especially) and the second is all about wine - my joint hobby with my lovely Hubby. We've held some great wine tasting events and holidays too, anything is possible with planning and timing and determination!

Holiday picnic this summer in France (sitting down haha)
Stitched gifts for my colleagues
when I finished teaching (2013)
Wine tasting weekend earlier in 2016 with my Cuvée Reserve friends

I'm not sure I would do quite so much if I didn't have MS - maybe that sounds odd but I am determined not to let it rule my life and that being said maybe I try to do too much - if there is such a thing!!

The MS Society is an amazing organisation - looking at their web page alone gives so much support to so many. There is of course all the offline support and advice, the many links to other organisations that can help, the feeling of not being alone and the endless and amazing research. Things have changed so much since my diagnosis in 1999 and with all their hard work there is so much more information and support.





Thank you to everyone who has donated - 25% of all donations will go to MS Society. You can follow their amazing work on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

If you'd like to donate directly to the MS Society please use this link - Donation for MS Society